Trust

What is your relationship with trust? Do you trust in others more than yourself? Or do you trust yourself more than others?

And where is your relationship with trust causing you to hold yourself back from creating the types of relationships you desire and deserve?

Trust is such a powerful foundation component for creating our reality. It so important to create a healthy relationship with trust within ourselves and with the universe.

My most recent realization lead me to see that a part of my foundational belief with trust is that I trust others way more than I trust myself. I was functioning on the belief that others knew me more than I knew myself, they knew what I wanted, they knew what I needed, they knew what was best for me – and I trusted this without question.

This belief was at the forefront of all my relationships with men. I saw that because I trusted outwardly for so long that I ended up creating this unhealthy relationship with trust within myself.

I continued to choose things that weren’t good for me, that I knew weren’t healthy for me, that I knew weren’t serving me and because of these choices I made I ended up violating my own trust.

I stopped listening to my heart, and my intuition, I stopped expressing my wants, and my needs. And with each choice I grew further away from myself, from my heart, and from the love within.

This broken relationship of trust with myself caused me to give my power away to others, and to look for love outside of myself. I didn’t trust myself to give myself the love I needed, to be there for myself, to listen to my body, to listen to my heart, and to act on it.

I now know that in order to start attracting the types of relationships I truly desire I have to start trusting in myself.

And the first step is forgiveness. Forgiving myself, forgiving yourself, for the times where we choose to listen to others instead of our own hearts, where we let fear or anger take over instead of coming from a place of love, where we let others take the wheel instead of being the driver of our life.

This forgiveness comes from a place of non-judgment. We do not need to be ashamed or to continue to punish ourselves for making decisions that are not in not serving us. We need to forgive and let go so that we can rebuild this trust for ourselves. In order to attract the relationships and reality we deserve.

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